You’ve probably noticed you simply feel better after a good laugh. Your mood and emotions are more positive. You may feel calmer and can look at a situation more hopefully. These feelings and reactions are due to the fact you’ve reduced your level of stress-all because you added some humor-what many health care professionals now believe to be a great “medicine” for stress relief.
Is it really true? Is laughter the best medicine? Can laughter promote wellness by relieving daily stress? According to a mounting pile of scientific evidence from many who are looking for ways to reduce the effects of stress, the answer is “YES!”
Health professionals agree-the benefits of laughter can reduce stress. According to John Hopkins University people use three distinct responses to funny situations: sense of humor, mirth, and laughter. Each promotes wellness and leads to stress relief either physically, psychologically, or sometimes both.
What science knows about SENSE OF HUMOR:
Humor comes from thought and perception. A person’s sense of humor is what they think is funny. A person with a “good sense of humor” is playful and has a more lighthearted perspective. They have the ability to enjoy the silliness of a situation that could be irrational, annoying, or even ridiculous. Research has proven that a sense of humor has a number of stress-reduction benefits.
A sense of humor
Reduces stress, anxiety, and tension
Promotes psychological well-being
Improves interpersonal relationships
Builds group identity and cohesiveness
What Science indicates a SENSE OF HUMOR may do:
Pending further research, studies are being presented that humor could offer a number of stress reduction benefits to parents and babies. There are number of websites that teaches laughter therapy, it will be unfair to mention Web Designers Galway owner is our laughter therapy member from the last 10 years and the of owner of CliquedMedia who helped us designed this website at a very cheap price because he believes on living healthy and happy, these days people are making there own lives by running after the luxuries of this life and in this run they forgot the actual happiness is in internal satisfaction.
Often I hear: “I work hard to prepare healthy and tasty meals! But my child is so picky!”
Do you sometimes have this problem?
Research shows that children that are involved with meal preparation, in even the simplest way, are more likely to try new foods.
To boost the odds of getting picky eaters to eat, try having them “cook” with you. When it seems appropriate, involve your children. Even just tasting foods in a different environment can also help. Bring your children to the farmer’s market where new tastes and textures abound. Often the produce guy in your local grocery store is happy to provide samples for your child.
If you have the time and inclination to do so, how about giving your child the opportunity to contribute to a meal? One of the simplest food to help prepare is mashed potatoes! Even toddlers can join in the fun!
Here is a simple approach to a “cooking lesson” with Mommy or Daddy! Easy Tips for cooking with your child:
Gather up all the ingredients you need for your special family recipe of Mashed Potatoes.
Depending upon the age of your child, he/she could help you peel. If so, find a potato peeler that your child can use safely and have them help peel off the skin. Or you could decide to leave them on. A lot of the nutrients are in the potato skin.
Rinse them together and have your child put them into a pan that is large enough to hold them covered with water.
You place the pan on the stove and boil them. When done, drain the water and wait until they cool a bit and can be handled.
When cooled, cut the boiled potatoes into pieces and place in a bowl. Now comes the fun! Do you want to let your child mash them by hand or use a mixer? Your choice!
What you might want to do is do both. Let your child mash a few, add some butter and you have a yummy snack to eat right now.
Or, if you feel comfortable, hold the mixer and let tot push the button after you’ve added the wet ingredients. It may get a bit messy, but oh, what fun!
You may not decide to serve your actual “meal masterpiece” at the meal, but you can share with the family your fun time and that they “helped” with the meal.
If you decide to do this, please share. Would enjoy hearing how it goes!
The basic rule about food is that you refrain from using food as reward. Why is that?
It is natural to want to turn to food for comfort from time to time. Everyone does this. What you want to avoid is encouraging the habit of turning to food for comfort. This gives food too much power. If food is your first response to fussiness you are setting yourself up for potential eating problems in the future.
Nutritionists state the following:
Parents are responsible for WHAT the child eats and the manner in which it is prepared.
Children are responsible for HOW MUCH they eat and IF they eat.
Clearly understanding these boundaries establishes healthy boundaries when it come to meal time.
When your children get a bit older the issue of dessert will come up. You may find yourself wondering…..
Should I feed my children dessert?
What should dessert be?
Should you only serve dessert if they finish their meal?
What if they don’t eat dinner, should they still get dessert?
Check out an article on this website, “Got Dessert?”that addresses these questions. Besides parenting, I have a passion for healthy lifestyle living and can offer nutrition tips as well. I worked for Weight Watchers for 12 years and have taught nutrition and stress management at Stanford in their WorkLife Department.
eyedactic is the new parental involvement software, helping parents replace the role of being “the police” to being “the consultant.” The Cyber Savvy Parent Workshop begins with a member of the eyeDactic team who instructs parents on how to use eyeDactic to collect and monitor data from all your tween/teen’s devices. This information can open up communication and provide an opportunity for parents to see what intrigues and interests their tween may have as tweens tend to not share their internet exploration with a parent. Parents can also begin to better understand and support better decision making when it comes to the use of the social media and texting. learn more about how to deal with kids by clicking here
Following this, Ms. Clark teaches 3 parenting strategies to help ease communication, support positive cyber-savvy choices and guide your tween/teen to making more responsible use of technology.
What is eyeDactic?
eyeDactic is software that collects data off of your tween/teen’s smartphone, tablet, or computer and then organizes the data into charts and graphs so that you can tell what apps and/or websites your tween/teen is using and for how long. eyeDactic also features location services so that you can know exactly where your tween/teen is and what they are doing. With it’s compatibility with all types of phones and browers and it’s ability to run silently in the background, eyeDactic truly is the up and coming parental software that focuses on relationships rather that blocking!
Alerts and Reports
Online community forum
Q. What is unique about eyedactic software?
A. eyeDactic is not parental or blocking software. Parental control software is appropriate for small children but not tweens/teens.
Q. Is parental control software effective?
A. There is no parental control software that is 100% effective. Or even close. Despite its name … you cannot control your son or daughter. Given billions of web sites, thousands of applications and 24×7 on line access … the belief that you can control or protect your teenager is naïve. A computer literate tween/teen bent on making bad on-line decisions knows all too well how to get around device locks, blocking filters, key stroke capturing, and proprietary browsers. Without any real information to the contrary, parents relying on the marketing claims of parental control software lull themselves into complacency.
Q. Will the school’s web filtering software keep my son/daughter safe?
A. Most schools provide some form of web filtering or monitoring software. But even the best schools find it impossible to safe guard your child from porn, hate groups, illegal drug advocacy groups, pedophiles, matchmaking sites, cheating, escort services etc. School log files that collect student browsing activity are unwieldy and seldom looked at, while Internet opportunities are increasingly abundant and ever changing.
Q. How is eyeDactic more effective for tween/teens than parental control or blocking software?
A. eyeDactic opens up discussions about good decision making between parent and tween/teen. When parents use blocking software, teens feel controlled and rebel against this control by sneaking, lying or hiding information. Parental control software turns the parent into the family policeman. When parents put themselves in the position of policing, it takes the responsibility of good decision making away from the tween/teen and puts the pressure on the parent to be the enforcer of good decision making. Parents find it challenging to talk with their teens as the teen sees them as “police.” With eyeDactic, parents receive permission to observe what their tween/teen is doing. Instead of policing, they become the consultant and take on the role of advisor. When the tween makes poor use of time or visits a questionable URL, the door is open for the parent to have a conversation to help the teen make a better decision the next time.
Q. How does eyeDactic software do that?
A. The eyeDactic software application is downloaded and installed on the tween/teen mobile device and/or family computer. The eyeDactic software gathers computer usage off of the tween/teen device and sends the data to the family’s cloud server. The family data is analyzed by the computer and summarized into easy-to-read charts and graphs for the parent and teenager to view together.
Q. How do I get my teen/tween to agree to run eyeDactic on their mobile device (or computer)?
A. There needs to be a family understanding. The more parents can observe their tween/teen making good decisions, the more freedom and privileges will be granted. This is what teenagers REALLY want. More than anything else in life teenagers want freedom, privileges, and responsibility to decide for themselves. Parents want that, too. Parents can help expedite this by becoming part of the process and by getting visibility into their teenager’s online digital life. The sooner a teenager moves toward becoming an adult by making responsible choices, the better for all. Tweens/teens who agree to run eyeDactic accelerate the process of good decision making and give parents the opportunity to become the “Consultant” instead of the “Police”.
Q. What if my teen/tween protests and says, “Why don’t you just trust me?”
A. The short answer is, “Trust is not granted, it is earned.” The more a tween/teen demonstrates responsible choices and behavior, the more a parent grows in trust and grants freedoms and responsibility. If you think about it, that is how the real world works too! This dynamic exists between teacher-student, employer-employee, DMV-driver, coach-player, etc.
Q. What stops a tween/teen from removing eyeDactic from their mobile device?
A. Nothing. eyeDactic monitoring software can be removed at any time. But … the tween/teen’s action of disabling or removing eyeDactic gets reported to the family cloud server and parents receive an email notifying them that eyeDactic has been disabled. For parents, this will cause concern as well as an opportunity for talking about why this happened and the ability to learn if anything unsafe or questionable has occurred. Consequently, tween/teens learn to understand that temporarily disabling the eyeDactic software (for any reason) does not help build that needed trust.
Q. How does eyeDactic categorize applications and web sites?
A. eyedactic uses crowd sourcing. When a parent sees an uncategorized URL or application, they have the opportunity to tag it with information. That information is made (anonymously) available to other parents. The collective efforts of all parents benefit each parent.
Q. How do you insure that my tween’s data goes to my server for my eyes only?
A. Every version of eyeDactic that gets downloaded onto an iPad (or mobile device / computer) has a unique serial number. When you type that serial number into your eyeDactic account, only you can see the data coming from that device.
As a parent educator, I’ve heard this question posed a number of times.
The reason why many parents are concerned about their baby getting bored is that they feel it is their “job” to make sure baby is entertained at all times. In my parenting practice I encourage parents to let go of feelings of a sense of urgency that they have to create the perfect environment and make sure baby is stimulated and challenged at all times. This is unnecessary and can cause increased stress for the new parent who is already feeling overwhelmed.learn more about parenting at http://www.janadaclark.com/cyber-savvy-parenting/
It is a myth to think that babies bore easily and that it is a parent’s job to rescue a baby from boredom. In fact according to Magda Gerber, an infant expert, the opposite is true.
“Babies don’t get bored unless parents have conditioned them to require external stimulation and entertainment.”
What does this mean for the new parent?
Don’t condition them to rely on constant external simulation from you.
Sometimes let your baby explore on their own without picking them up or moving the toys around for an easier reach or view. Babies are curious about everything: The light fixture above, the wallpaper, the pattern in the carpet, the contrast between light and darker walls or furniture. Objects that we take for granted are all up for consideration and discovery. Ordinary to us, babies focus on patterns, colors and textures in their world. Allowing them to focus on these everyday objects can promote a longer attention span.click here to learn more about baby behaviors
Trust your baby’s natural ability to learn through self-directed exploration. Self-directed exploration is the art of allowing your baby to examine things that interest him, rather than showing him things you think will interest him. You may be surprised how your baby can become fascinated with something ordinary much longer that you would have thought possible.
You may feel the urge to pick them up quickly as soon as they begin to fuss. Ask yourself, “Is baby tired?” Because a baby grows more during their first year of life than at any other time, it is natural that baby will tire easily. Many if not most of baby’s cries are related to just being tired. Babies can’t “tune out” when being stimulated and can easily become overstimulated. Thinking a baby’s cry is because they are bored could cause you to compound the problem of stimulating them even more. And what they really need is just rest.
The challenge is to know the reason for crying. Is the cry from a bit of frustration over acquiring a new skill like grasping an object or moving their body toward an object? Or is the baby truly tired? Over time as you gain experience and get to know your baby’s cues, you will learn the difference. If you don’t allow a bit of fussing now and then, you will never know for sure if your baby is struggling over trying to learn a new skill or just tired.
In her book Your Self-Confident Baby, Magda Gerber sums this discussion wisely, “I think what is typically called boredom is tiredness. I don’t believe that babies become ‘bored’ in an adequate environment. Rather it is our projection: we think they are bored.”
Here is my pick for the Top 10 veggies you should be serving your family. I have chosen them because of their low calorie count, high fiber count, and their rich anti-oxidant qualities. The DV stands for the Daily Value-what % of a nutrient a food has that meets your daily needs. Learn more about daily dose required dose of calories by clicking here.
This standard was developed by the Food and Drug Administration. Enjoy!
1. Broccoli (raw, chopped)
1 cup serving: 31 calories, 2 grams of fiber, 6 grams of carbohydrates
Vitamin C 135% DV similar to an orange, Vitamin A 11%DV calcium 4%DV
Good source of calcium. For those who don’t consume dairy, 1 cup of broccoli has the same amount of calcium as 4 oz of milk.
Good source of Vitamin A mostly as beta-carotene, an antioxidant that has been linked to a reduction of cataracts, heart disease, and some cancers.
Contains two important phytochemicals that increase certain cancer-fighting enzymes.
1 cup serving: 28 calories, 2 grams of fiber, 6 grams of carbohydrates
Vit C 46%DV Folate 7 %DV Potassium 3%DV Vit B6 5%DV
Heart healthy- as folate, potassium and vitamin B6 help protect the heart
Best when steamed as overcooking destroys the Vitamin C and folic acid. Great substitute for mashed potatoes. Far more nutritious and far fewer carbohydrates than potatoes.
Contains phytochemicals that can block the growth of certain cancers.
3. Spinach (mustard)
1 cup cooked: 29 calories, 4 grams of fiber, 5 grams of carbohydrates
Vitamin A 295% DV, Vitamin C 195% DV, Vit B6 9%, Calcium 28% DV, Folate 33%DV, Iron 8% DV Potassium 15%DV
Contains the phytochemical lutein which helps prevent age-related macular degeneration
Contains lipoic acid which aides Vitamin C and E regenerate. May also regulated blood sugar levels.
1 cup serving: 44 calories, 4 grams of fiber, 10 grams of carbohydrates
Vitamin A 17%DV, Vitamin C 20%DV, VitK 25%DV, Folate 10%DV, Manganese 18%DV, Magnesium 6%DV
Are very low in carbohydrates compared to other beans-so you can eat a large serving with little impact on insulin levels.
Can lower cholesterol levels due to high amount of fiber.
1 medium artichoke: 64 calories, 10 grams of fiber, 14 grams of carbohydrates
Vitamin K 22%DV, Folate 27%DV, Vitamin C 15%DV, Potassium 9%DV, Niacin 7%DV, Magnesium 13%DV, Manganese 13%DV, Phosphorus 9%DV
Has as much potassium as a banana.
Has a very high number of antioxidants-ranked 4th for total antioxidant content as compared with over a 1000 foods commonly eaten in US.
Promotes healthy cholesterol levels and healthy arteries. Content of Vitamin B6 may help to reduce IBS syndrome.
12 spears: 39 calories, 4 grams of fiber, 8 grams of carbohydrates
Vitamin A 20%DV, Vitamin K 63% DV, Folate 37%DV Vit C 13%DV, Potassium 6% DV, Selenium 9 %DV
The amount of folate helps to reduce levels of homocysteine, which can lead to atherosclerosis and heart disease, and also helps prevent birth defects.
Contains more of the antioxidant glutathione than another other fruit or vegetable. This powerful antioxidant detoxifies the body of carcinogens, protects cell membranes DNA, and aides the recycling benefits of Vitamin C and E.
Acts as a natural diuretic, reduces swelling and water retention.
7. Brussels Sprouts
1 cup cooked: 54 calories, 4 grams of fiber, 12 grams of carbohydrates
Vitamin 24%DV, Vitamin C 160%DV, Vit K 180%DV, Folate 15%DV, Potassium 14%DV, Calcium 6 %DV, Iron 10%DV,
Another cruciferous vegetable, powerful phytochemicals called indoles protect against cancer.
Unique to vegetables-Brussels sprouts are high in protein-as protein accounts for more than ¼ of their calories per serving
Over cooking releases unpleasant sulfur compounds. To avoid, add just enough water to cover and boil until water is absorbed. Roasting, steaming, stir frying and micro waving are other options
8. Bok Choy
1 cup chopped, raw: 30 calories, 2 grams of fiber, 4.5 grams of carbohydrates
Vitamin A 63%DV, Vit C 52%DV, Vit K 40%DV, Folate 12%DV, Vit B6 7%DV, Calcium 7%DV, Potassium 5%DV, Manganese 6%DV, Iron 3%DV, Magnesium 3%DV, Phosphorus 3%DV
A member of the cabbage family is a cruciferous vegetable and contains glucosinolates, which have cancer-fighting properties. For best absorption of cancer-fighting enzymes, chop and eat raw.
Good source of beta carotene which promotes eye health. For best absorption of beta carotene cook first and serve with a dash of fat.
1 medium: 33 calories, 2 grams of fiber, 7 grams of carbohydrates
Vitamin C 40%DV, Vitamin A 30%DV, Vitamin K 18%DV, Vit B6 7%DV, Potassium 12%DV, Manganese 10%DV, Folate 7%DV
Contains higher concentrations of lycopene, the powerful antioxidant than any other plant source. The redder the tomato, the more lycopene it contains. High levels of lycopene have been shown to greatly reduce the risk of developing certain cancers. Eating just one tomato gives you this protective effect.
Lycopene is still present in tomato juice, if tomato is cooked in sauce, or processed into paste.
10. Red Bell Pepper
1 whole red pepper: 46 calories, 3 grams of fiber, 9 grams of carbohydrates
Vitamin C 317% DV, Vitamin A 93%DV, Vitamin E 12% DV, Vit B6 22%DV, Folate 17%DV, Potassium 9%DV, Manganese 8%DV
Actually a ripened green pepper, contain more nutrients than green or yellow peppers. Have more Vit C than an orange and twice as much as a green pepper.
Cooked red peppers enhance the absorption of beta-carotene.
Contain the antioxidant lycopene which reduces the chance of prostate cancer.
Hosting a barbeque this 4th? For many, grilling can be considered an art! Delicious, healthy, and easy, grilling ads zest and flavor. Learn a few tips to make your 4th of July event perfect!
Place all patties on hot grill and close lid. Wait 2-3 minutes. If lifts easily, flip and close lid.Wait 2-3 more minutes. Done when juices run clear and have solid feel. Avoid pressing down with spatula as it squeezes the juices out, leaving dry and tough. Cook time: A 5 oz. patty takes about 5 minutes.
Choose steaks no thicker than 1 ½ inches with fat marbling for tenderness. Use tongsrather than a fork to keep juices intact while turning. Cook 3-6 minutes for rare, 6-9 medium-rare,and over 9 minutes is well done. Cook time: 5oz Filet Mignon 5 min. 4oz Top Sirloin 4 min.8oz Tenderloin Kabobs 4-5 min. learn more veggies recipes at http://www.janadaclark.com/top-10-veggies-for-kids/
Country ribs have the most meat and fat with less bone. Sear in the juices, and move to indirect heat for about 2 hours. Baby back ribs are smaller than spare ribs and have the highest bone-to-meat ratio. They cook quickly and can easily be overcooked. Precook by micro waving or simmering for about 20 minutes. Grill for 10 minutes or less. Spareribs are the most popular type of grilled ribs. Parboil for about 20 minutes to steam out fat. Avoid using direct heat as too much heat will make for tough, dry meat. Best when smoked over low heat 2-3 hours.
Place pieces on the hottest part of the grill and sear for 3 minutes per side. Move to slightly cooler area. Turn frequently. Add sauce at the last minute to avoid burning. Cook time: 3 ½oz breast 3 min. 6oz kabob 3-4 min.
Best are firmer varieties: tuna, salmon or swordfish. Grill fish whole or choose thick steaks as they tend not to flake or break apart like fillets. Stuff whole fish with lemon slices to let heat get in. Add a little olive oil before grilling. Sprinkle salt on top of steak, leave till almost done, then put a little oil on both sides. Done when meat flakes easily, not glossy or translucent. Cook time: 6oz steak 3-4 min.
Turn frequently. Cook time: 2oz 2 minutes or less.
Grilling vegetables is easy and one of the best ways to cook vegetables. Not only does grilling add a smoky flavor, the grill marks add visual appeal. Cut into pieces ¾-1 inch of thickness. Soak in cold water about 30 minutes to keep from drying out. Avoid over-soaking. Pat dry, then brush lightly with oil to prevent sticking. Parboil some of the denser veggies such as asparagus, broccoli, cauliflower, summer squash and zucchini for 3-4 minutes as it is hard to cook through them on the grill. In addition to salt and pepper to taste, use a variety of seasonings and spices to enhance flavor.
Use either a grilling basket for smaller pieces. If using wooden skewers, soak for 10 minutes before threading to prevent scorching. Metal skewers do not require prep time. Here is a list of easy-to-grill vegetables:
Artichoke hearts, marinated
Red or green peppers
Yes, you can grill certain fruits too! Some fruits hold up well and can be served as a dessert or in combination with a protein and veggies on a kabob. Follow these tips when grilling fruit:
Apple or cantaloupe: Cut in large wedges and add to a kabob.
Peach: Cut in half, remove pit and place on aluminum foil. Spoon in blueberries, raspberries, or strawberries. Sprinkle a teaspoon of brown sugar and a little lemon juice. Fold up foil and seal tight. Grill for about 15 minutes, turning once. Serve right out of the foil.
Pineapple: Cut a whole pineapple lengthwise through the leaves, keeping leaves attached, into 4 wedges. Grill cut-side down, until slightly charred about 2 minutes on each cut side. Pineapple pieces can also be added to a kabob.
Sweet potatoes: Cut in half, grilling till soft. Brush lightly with a bit of oil or butter, add cinnamon or nutmeg and a teaspoon of brown sugar.
Hope these grilling tips help to make a delicious holiday meal for you and your family. Happy 4th of July!